About Us!

My daughter meets the man of her dreams, and yes Tom popped the question.

Will you marry me!!! Shantelle said yes.

Now to organise the wedding that she has always dreamed about.

What a stressful time it was for us. We thought we would start by looking for a wedding dress., The Perfect Dress. This was so upsetting for us. No one really welcomed her as she was a bigger girl, so many shops just kept on giving her size 8 dresses to try on when clearly, she was not a size 8. This day, the first day of planning her wedding and my beautiful daughter ended that day in tears.

The next step was looking for a venue.

Every venue we went to we just couldn't afford the venue hire let alone the extra's we had to pay for the wedding. Most venues we went to we could only use their approved vendors with very little to no negation.

So, yet another day ending in tears. What should have been a happy experience for my daughter, was just a sad and stressful experience. So, we decided to plan Shantelle’s wedding ourselves and it was truly an amazing day, filled with love, the perfect wedding day.

We discovered this was the general way for planning a wedding, Stressful & Confusing.

We agreed this was not the way that anyone should experience something that is meant to be amazing, we decided to become Brindalear to take away the stress and make the wedding journey a happy and enjoyable time for both Bride & Groom.